My Life Seems Empty

Similar situation here; counseling helped. I am happy now, but still have moments.

Try (without her knowing), the 40 day love dare. Google it, it could be pretty awesome for you!

I'm so sorry. Seems like a theme. It's amazing how common. Have you tried asking her what it would take, seriously, without sarcasm or desperation? This isn't working for you, so what can I do to fix it? If she says nothing, don't give up. As long as there is love, there is hope.

im sorry for your loss..you seem a good person with a caring heart..im sure you will find love again before to long..this world needs hearts like yours..peace and love to you

Love.You wrote this on my birthday. Somehow I missed it. You are such an amazing man. Sensitive. Devoted father. Passionate. Loyal. Loving. I am blessed by your friendship and by your love. You will do just fine. I know it. For you can dance like the wind and love like the sun. Kissessssssssssssssssssssssssss....Love you too. xoox Your offspring will be fine because you love constantly even in sorrow. xoxoxo

I think it's probably a good time to now take time for yourself get to know you better things will fall into place I do believe everything happens for a reason I also love my husband and can't imagine life without him after 28 yrs I recently cheated on him n told him he doesn't want to work things out n I have to accept that I'm now am a little excited to learn about myself I don't even know what I like n believe me I'm seriously depressed just focus on yourself don't let your mind wonder stay focused good luck to us both!!!!!!

Whether the leaver or the left, it's hard...my circumstances were different, but mourning a twenty-plus year marriage is painful no matter how you look at it.



Hope that your future looks brighter, and that you are finding value and joy in your new life.

Weep and mourn. Get up and wash your face, get dressed, and face the world. And do it all over again tomorrow. And every day. And believe it or not, the pain does subside, or maybe we just grow used to it. Be polite, be respectful, but let her be the one to file for the separation/divorce/etc. Life will go on. You will see your children. Get to know them personally. This is an opportunity for you to become an individual with them. They will carry you on. Take your time. Be YOURSELF. Learn to love you and enjoy the solitude (this takes time). You will love again. (But please don't take on the first or second person that comes your way, my ex did and now he is divided from the children he bonded so closely with--she is driving wedges between them among them and also with their father. Its 8 years later and I wish I had a second chance at it for the kids' sake and also for his. It took me that long to get over the bitterness and if she ever gets it, it may be too late for your wife too.) But whatever you do, never give up hope for a good life. It may be redefined as today is not the vision you had, but we have to readjust ourselves.

Hang in there Tiger. I was married for 20 years and we have two children 17 and 14. It has been a horrible experience. I moved out because I had someplace to go and he did not. As a result I am mothering from 4 blocks away and trying to slip in and out while he is not there. I fear I've lost him the the "sexting" addiction he has gotten into.



Take one day at a time - if you would like a texting friend, let me know. I can offer support and I hope you can do the same. It sucks to be in love with someone who considers you plan "b".

OMG - Exactly the same circumstances for me!. I feel your paid. Such an emotional roller coaster and all I want is answers. One hand I want this to pass quickly and the other hand I want to get back together. It eats me up.

The reason was that she fell out of love with me. No other reason was given

My life starts today. Enjoy Life no matter what :-)