Don'T Know If I Will Survive...My husband and I have been separated for 7 weeks (almost 2 months). I kicked him out because he was on the phone with another woman. Since then our relationship has been off and on. For the most part he goes days without calling me and I am always initiating contact. He says that if he returns home he will feel like a "boy" and less than a man because I threw him out, make more money, and all of the things here were mine before we were married. He says he loves me and still cares but has mixed emotions.
He says he is willing to try counseling and we have an appointment to go in 2 weeks. Has anyone ever experienced this? Is there any hope for reconciliation or should I just move on?
I love my husband and I have treated him mean in the past by saying hurtful things. Since then, Ive really been trying to show all of my effort that I need him to come home. We recently lost a child and have been through a lot of pain in a short while. We have been married 2.5 years and both early 30's. I'm not sure how this will play out. My family tells me to move on but it just isn't that simple. He is currently staying with a friend but I have my thoughts that he is dating.
Should we go to counseling? Has it worked for anyone else? Is this relationship over?
IamShariD 31-35 4 Responses 0 Feb 9, 2013