My boyfriend well ex boyfriend and I just broke up at the end of december....we had been dating for about 4 years. Our biggest issue was that we were both too jealous. .. well he was jealous I just didnt trust him worth a damn. The trust issues started about a year or so into the relationship. He had just got new job and started fighting with me a lot. I was confused with his quick attitude change.... we broke up a few weeks later. And to my surprise it was because he was trying to get with a coworker. I could help but laugh in his face when she turned him down. But of course me being sooooo in love and stupid took him back a few weeks later... but then another year or so went by and my friend called me and said hey your still dating your bf right? I said yeahhhh why???? Apparently he messaged her on facebook saying how beautiful she was and how much he wanted to be with her..... his response... I didnt know you were friends. But of course its a vicious cycle and I took him back....again. WEll a few weeks ago we were lying in bed and he wss texting. I simply asked oh what are doing? That was it.... he flipped out and said im so controlling. Meanwhile im just sitting there like wtf is happening... he gets up and leaves. I called him and txted him. Hours went by and it wss now 530 am before I heard anything from him. He texted me saying its over and all this ****. So I agreed. But then he came over last week.... we hooked up. It was the best I have ever had. But we dont want to be with each other... I still have a lot of feelings for him so I cant stop thinking about it. The worst part is I recently lost 85 lbs and it took a lot of hard work.... but these past two weeks I gained 12 in two weeks.... I just hate how much this is affecting me... I need advice and help!!!