this is a goal for me that i realize grows with my self esteem. at the moment i don't have a lot and so i care a little too much about what i wear in public. at home i don't care at all...i've gone through phases with this. i remember in university i was comfortable to come to campus with pj bottoms and flops while everyone else was doing stilettos and mini skirts. my self consciousness sadly increased with age and when i started working 2 years back clothes became a bigger issue. i hadn't given a voice to this experience yet until i saw this group. so i want to be less concerned about what i wear from now on. conform less. not change a thousand times in the morning before i decide it's ok to go out, and just buy clothes for comfort and personality as opposed to image and superficiality. thanks for this group. naked is not a comfortable option for me just yet (lol) but being less obsessed about what i wear is a mighty mighty goal! bf.