I'm A Woman And An Adult!!

I sometimes wish that my parents would recognise that I am not a little girl anymore. I am in my early twenties now. I am able to form my own opinion on things.. My mum, who lives in a different town(!), wants to know where I am all the time, and if I go anywhere and don't tell her I get dragged over the coals for it. I can kind of understand that she just wants to know that I am safe and all that, but I sometimes think it's annoying and a bit over the top.

Another thing that annoys me is my parents not telling me stuff, because they don't think I need to know or won't be able to handle it if they do tell me.. ARGH!!! Sadly, they won't be around forever and I need to know about their health, and what to do if anything happens to them, but they don't see that. It makes me very depressed when, especially my mum, doesn't talk with me about the hard issues, and plays my concerns off as being trivial and me as stupid.
LibranGirl LibranGirl
26-30, F
1 Response May 21, 2012

They don't necessarily tell me lies, they make ambiguous statements or refuse to talk about it and walk away and I'm left sitting there wondering what's so bad about talking about things.