I Don't Understand..

People mistake me for a mean person, often. I don't know why, I've never done anything intentional to hurt them or make them feel bad. I think people mistake me for being mean when I'm just being real. I'm a very upfront and honest person and some people just don't like that. Some people don't like being told to their face about something that they've intentionally did wrong because everybody wants to be right.

Let me explain. When you do something that is wrong and you don't know that it's wrong, then I will give you constructive criticism and let it go. If you do something that is wrong and you know that it was wrong, I will let you know how I feel and think and what my opinion is regardless of how you want me to answer.

If you ask me to give you an honest answer but expect a complete lie, don't. I won't lie to you, ESPECIALLY if you ask me to give you an honest answer. There is no reason to do it, you're going to find out the truth soon anyway so you might as well prepare for it.

I'm not going to prance around and call you fat or tell you that you need to lose weight or call you stupid or say that you're bad at something you like to do..I'm not that type of honest person. I try not to judge people, I feel if there is no point in telling someone what they are or who they are, then it's not my place to keep quiet. Honestly, I don't mind if someone is overweight unless they're completely unhealthy but even then, I'll let them make their own minds on that.

I am not a mean person. Being real doesn't mean you have to be mean to get your point across. Granted, if someone is rude too me first, I will hit them where it hurts because that is me. It may come across as mean but if you're mean to me, then there is no reason why I should respect you. If you do something to me that is something I've asked you not to do or something I've told you not to ask me and you still do it, then I will be upset with you and very straight forward. If you don't like that, then you shouldn't have done it.

As I've said before. I am not a mean person. If you treat me with respect, I will treat you with respect. If you disrespect me, don't expect me to be nice to you.
HappyZappyZaperson HappyZappyZaperson
26-30, T
1 Response Jan 21, 2013

Its a good thing I have thick skin. I too, am sort of misinterpreted by society. I am often seen as a gullible fool, but screw me over and I'll have to bring out my chainsaw!_!