Understanding A Girl

Avoid a line. “Are your legs tired? Because you’ve been running through my mind all day.” Guys think cheesy pick-up lines are clever to use when they ask a girl out? It’s ridiculous. Avoid using a pick-up line and just introduce yourself instead.

Make eye contact. While you’re talking to her, be sure to make eye contact. It’s okay to feel a little timid or shy, but eye contact shows you’re sincere.

Do it right away! Don’t wait — ask her put as soon as you can. “Don’t wait” also means don’t wait until the last minute to ask her to a special event, like a concert. The longer you wait, the more likely someone else will have asked her already!

Do it in person. If you’re shy, you might be tempted to ask her out via text or instant messenger or even on Facebook. But ask her out in person — or at least over the phone. Don’t send someone else over, and don’t ask one of her friends to do it.

Be sincere. Don’t lavish her with compliments you don’t mean, or promise her the best night of her life. Just be honest, otherwise, she’ll think you’re insincere.

Don’t over-reach. Don’t take her out to a dinner you can’t afford, or to a place you aren’t comfortable at, just because you think she’d enjoy it more. What most girls want more than a fancy dinner is an awesome, confident, happy date.

Be yourself. Don’t ever pretend to be anyone other than who you are. Why would you want to be anyone else? Any girl who would only go out with you because you’re a firefighter rather than a waiter isn’t worth it anyway.

Be specific. Don’t just ask her out to dinner. Ask her out to dinner at your favorite restaurant on Friday at six. If she already has plans, she can tell you when she’s available instead. The more specific you are, the better the chances she’ll say yes, and not brush you off.

Be bold! Women don’t like men who are over-confident, but we don’t like guys who are completely shy, either. If you do tend to be shy, at least be bold when you approach her.

Make sure she has your number. Make sure your girl has a way to get in touch with you in case anything comes up between the time you ask her out, and when your date is scheduled.

Don’t push. If you ask her out, and she seems hesitant or says no, don’t push her. Just move on. You might feel you’re being bold, but we just think it’s creepy.
sunsetglow sunsetglow
22-25, F
2 Responses Jul 24, 2010

lol. I know right?! We don't understand them too, after all! :)

sweetie this was a good idea but we just have to face it GUYS WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND US!! lol