It's an interesting concept that I have been thinking about, how my sexless marriage got me to this point. Now don't get me wrong I like sex, I will go even so far as saying I love sex, but when you spend 5+ years in pretty much a sexless marriage you learn a few things. First how to take care of yourself and not count on a women to do it for you. Is this a good thing or a bad thing, well you don't end up letting your little head do the thinking for your big head. Second you look at the big picture, not just when and where the next time you can have sex, but what type of relationship you want and who you want it with. Third there is no race or rush, I don't have to find Miss Right or Miss Right Now in the next week because I have a case of blue balls. Last I am finding myself along the way and hopefully in the end this will be better for the person I find to share my journey with.