It's not the solitude that scares me.....I just like having you there :-)
I have been pretty self sufficient for quite some time. When I decided to leave my husband in 2006 I saved pennies and dollar bills just to have some money that would cushion me when I actually left in 2007. My job allows me to provide a pretty ok life for them *phew Thank God!*
But, I do enjoy being with others immensely. Of course there are times when I like to be alone listening to music I like or watching television loudly or eating something I love.....who doesn't? However, if it were my wish to be in solitude or surrounded by someone who loves me I would choose the latter. As much as I don't need someone to complete me I still want someone there who compliments all the good things I already have.
Is this too much to ask? I hope not.......wish me luck!!!