I Love Him, But.....I truly have a wonderful husband, he is thoughtful, fun, my best friend...which is why i married him. We are both on our second marriage...during my time in between marriages, i dated several men...on my FIRST date with my husband i knew i wasnt physically attracted to him, but continued to see him because we are so compatible in every other area. I felt like I was being superficial, immature and ridiculous even thinking of letting this wonderful man go that adores me and my babies so much. Long story short...I DO NOT want to leave him, but 5 years later....its worse...i can't hardly stand the thought of having sex with him...I break down and do it, but never enjoy it, never ******* and at this point I feel horrible for him also, he deserves to feel wanted in that way....not sure what to do. We try vacationing, body oils, massage...but i still have to close my eyes and fantasize until it's over....i miss WANTING a man physically and I am sure he misses being wanted...i find myself thinking several coworkers and colleagues in very inappropriate ways....i'm sexually frustrated, as he has to be as well......suggestions????
deleted 26-30 31 Responses 7 Apr 23, 2012