I have been married for 20 years & the past 3 years have been very hard. My other half had been sleeping with his 1st cousin for over 4 years. Iam so broken hearted. We had never had a honeymoon so i booked a trip to New York & it was there he told me. My whole world Came crashing down. So it was then that i decided we should break up try to put the past behind me but it did not work. The children were devastated i was trying to do my best but it was not working. So with alot of talking & trying to sort things out i let him move back in. Iam really trying my best but i feel its going from bad to worse. I feel iam doing all the work in the relationship he just thinks he is the big lad. I taught this would never happen to me. I taught we were happy i really did. I just dont think i can do this anymore my days are getting longer & harder. What can i do ? I just want what i had all them years ago but i dont think its ever going to happen.