Cut All the Drama About Pervs, Ladies. It's So Old.Quite a few times I've seen female users on a site include warnings in the 'About Me' section of their pages or post whole dramatic stories in the "I Want You to Read This Before You Add Me" group telling men not to send them dirty messages or pictures if sex is what they're looking for. Yet some of these women are just the types who are specifically on a networking site just to talk about sex and their love for sex anyway, yet don't want men messaging them about it. Some of these women sending those warnings often put suggestive pictures of themselves on their pages, and really only like to post these stories of warning just to make you think that they're beautiful in the eyes of many men and that men send them inappropriate messages much less often than they really do, if at all. It's just a way of allotting themselves exaggerated credit. No doubt that some men really are filling a woman's inbox with lewd or suggestive messages, but with other women really doesn't go on as much as they want you to think, and they want you to think that oh so many men think they're that sexy and desirable that they would want to hound them with advances.
If these claims from women really are true, whether they will admit it or not, they still enjoy the drama of it all. They like the idea of being able to boast to the world, "Ooh! Ooh! I get dirty messages from men frequently!" So they act as if getting these messages annoys or flusters them, which to some extent may, but they really get off on being able to tell everybody all about them in all those stories, which is really no less sleazy and cheesy than the men who really do send women inappropriate messages.
Women love to talk about how much men are perverts and horny monsters on the web who won’t leave them alone, and they seem to think that complaining about it will really do any good or humiliate those men, but it doesn’t. They also fail to realize that a lot of other women are just as perverted and h.orny, just in a different way, and don’t get noticed: a sad truth that women don’t want to accept is that if going online to meet women for s.ex REALLY never worked, not even 1% of the time, you would never have the men who seek it even try. Just that 1% is still enough to motivate them, and in truth men are meeting women - and girls - online for s.ex a lot more than that. And to make it worse, a lot of the women meeting men for sex are not even necessarily the ones with sleazy, pornagraphic profiles but actually very average, woman-next-door ones. So this is why men who seek it keep doing it, knowing that any average women can be kinky too.
So cut the drama and the ego trip. It's overdone and it's old.