People Just Don't Think, Do They?

If you like sex, and if you like to have sex online, hey, its whatever. However, might I suggest if you're looking for that cyber instant gratification you at least find someone who mutually shares your interest? If 90% of the experiences I'm in have nothing to do with sex, what does that tell you? OHHH RIIGGHT! Well, there you have it. Also, me taking a break from dating should imply I'm not for the random hook-ups, either. I didn't want to make my featured story overlong, but yeah, its me and my trusty "b.o.b" for the time being. Because been there, done that and really ended up not having anything to show for it..but if you like sex, fine, perv it up. Just do yourself a favor and don't bug me. Unless being being verbally insulted is your kink, someone's leaving with very hurt feelings and it ain't going to be me. Have a nice day.
Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum
36-40, F
1 Response Jan 7, 2013

lessthan, I don't want to bug you. Just wanted to mention that because one shows interest for sex doesn't mean that sex is all that one cares for, nor that sex is what is most important for one. It may simply be that, at that point, for x reasons, one misses it. (Quite natural, wouldn't you say?) So many ladies think that way.
For one, here are interests (other than sex) to which I regularly devote a lot of time:
Literature: name the book, the author, the country.
Law, business administration.
The arts: drawing, painting, sculpture, photography, architecture.
Newspaper, newsmagazines (The Economist, TIME).
People: Aristotle, Martha Nussbaum, Einstein, Freud, V. Hugo, H. James, V. Woolf, Mozart, Clara Schumann, Clara Haskil, Camille Claudel, P. E. Trudeau, T. Blair, B. Obama, etc.
Regions, countries: Asia (Russia, India, Thailand, China, Hong Kong, Singapore, Japan, Philippines), Australia, North America, South America, Europe, Middle East, Africa.
Cultures of other people: languages (Apart from Ukrainian and English, French, Spanish, German, Russian, Hindi-Urdu, Thai, Chinese (Mandarin), Japanese).
Music: classical music (Monteverdi, Vivaldi, Bach, Haendel, Haydn, Mozart, Beethoven, Schubert, Schumann (Clara and Robert), Mendelssohn-Bartholdy, Chopin, Liszt, Paganini, Rossini, Verdi, Wagner, Brahms, Mahler, Strauss, Berlioz, Gounod, Saint-Saëns, Franck, Fauré, Glinka, Borodine, Rimski-Korsakov, Moussorgsky, Tchaikovski, Rachmaninov, Grieg, Drorak, Albeniz, de Falla, Puccini, Debussy, Ravel, Stravinski, Prokofiev, Chostakovitch, Schönberg, Bartok, Rodrigo, Vaughan-Williams, Britten, Gershwin, Messiaen, Stockhausen), violin, viola, cello, piano, chamber music, opera, rock, popular music, jazz, blues, country music.
Movies: name one, a director, a genre, a country.
Games: chess, cards.
Sports: swimming, diving, track and field, soccer.
Animals: cats, dogs.
I am not here ONLY (maybe not even MOSTLY) for sex.
With kindness.

Its not towards people who know they're not for sex on here. I feel those who have to passionately defend their stance are probably in denial about it, and to that just embrace what you're looking for. I just ask I not be involved. I don't care what others do online, I don't want to get involved in cyber relations- its boring, pointless and unsatisfying in the end. With my past, I'm just here to chill out and enjoy myself, not get accosted for xxx pictures. Again, I get what youre trying to say, and that's fine you have interests. I wasn't assuming anything totally bad, but when I see people who have adult marked profiles, I run the other way. For all I know it could be for other reasons, but I'm just trying to keep myself safe, no offense to others.