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I Am Not Here To Please You

What I Have To Say....

By: LelainaTroy
Written on April 21st, 2012
Age: 31-35 , Female
626 people have read this story

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  • ineedadrink

    I came to your profile because EP suggested you, since we have some friends in common. Having read some of what you have written, I believe I would be enriched if you could add me. I am on this site trying to connect with positive, vibrant people who have "real' lives. I would be very happy if you could add me. I promise I will try not to pester you.

    May 19, 2012
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  • grayhalo

    If I had as many friends in the real world as the "friends" I have on EP (although I do consider some of you real friends) I'd go nuts just trying to give each of you adequate attention. Okay, so maybe that just means I am not as skilled at multitasking as some, but still.



    You can't keep up with every ones stories all the time. Even if they are interesting. Too bad that person was too self centered to realize that.

    Apr 23, 2012
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  • AllAboutLaffs

    *cheers for Feisty*



    More and more ... these days .... I see people who get all pissy because they don't get the attention THEY feel they deserve ....



    To me, EP is leisure time .... not life .... and I applaud you for focusing on your priorities, not theirs ....



    I hope that everything in your life comes together ....

    Apr 22, 2012
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  • 1sweetloralei

    I am sorry you have to deal with all that. What you have dealt with on Ep I have too more than once. It is very frustrating. Just know there are many here who understand and love you. *HUGS*

    Apr 22, 2012
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  • bobbyorr

    i clicked on you by accident, but now glad i did, once i read through this, you actually have a good attitiude about this, this should not be all consuming and family and relationships should always come first, i have been a part timee reader for 2 years but recently started to contribute and have already struck up some pretty cool mini friendships. sometimes a little e-hug goes along way, concider your self e- hugged, and if someone de-friends you they really wern't friends at all.

    Apr 22, 2012
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  • thecarer

    I think you are honest and like other comments you prioritise and children in my eyes come way ahead of PM's left on the computer so you have no reason to apologise if anything you are owed an apology.

    Apr 22, 2012
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  • BonnMkII

    Ah the burden of having friends

    Apr 22, 2012
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  • leehaa13

    i agree completely with this, get better soon, i hope everything goes well for you and your family :)

    Apr 22, 2012
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  • justmeonline

    I like hearing from my friends on here, but I also know people have a life that probably takes higher priority than EP; probably something unhealthy about the situation if it doesn't. So, much as I might wish certain dear friends were accessible whenever I might fancy some interaction, I happily accept that of course they cannot possibly always be, just like I cannot possibly always be!

    Apr 21, 2012
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  • goliathtree

    Good for you.....we all need to spend a bit less time on here. And if someone jumps off the Minxie turnip truck, it is their loss not yours. Now...get your *** out in the sun....and add me baby....

    Apr 21, 2012
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  • ersatz

    Well said. I agree with everything you wrote - except about apologizing. You owed no apology. This person appears to only care about themselves. While hard to accept feeling rejected and removed, you are probably better off in the long run ...

    Apr 21, 2012
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    • LelainaTroy

      You have become a close friend and I appreciate your blunt nature and your understanding ...Thank you so much , I do not think you know how much you have assisted me in this time and I truly appreciate you!!

      Apr 21, 2012
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    • ersatz

      If I have been able to assist you in any small way at all, know that I am happy to have done so. Helping friends, especially if in need, is what friendships are all about. Thank you for your kind words Minxy!

      Apr 21, 2012
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