In A Relationship

In a relationship, I am not jealous at all. My friends find it so weird. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years but, even in the start of our relationship I was never jealous. He drives girls home from work sometimes & when we are out with our friends he might sit & talk to a girl the whole time. I don't care though, I mean I have him he is with me. So, why should I be jealous of these other girls? I know he loves me.. & if he finds a girl he loves or likes more than me well, I guess that is what was meant to happen. Of course I would be heartbroken, but it's out of my hands, I don't control anyones life but my own. There was a girl he used to work with that flirted with him but, he came right to me & told me & said he obviously had no interest in her & that he tries to avoid speaking to her as much as he can. He has never given me a reason to be jealous. I understand that people who have been hurt in the past have reason to not be so trusting.. but, spending so much time & effort controlling your man & being jealous you'll have wasted time having fun.

Aleighsha Aleighsha
18-21, F
5 Responses Feb 10, 2010

Ugh, that sounds awful. You should be allowed to look.. looking isn't touching!

Aw, thank-you. You're very sweet.

Thanks, I'm an "old soul" or that's what I'm often told!

Thank-you! :)

Have a good time with what u have. Never mind whta others talk about.