I Am Not Lazy!

So... during some family drama, my cousin whom I had not spoken with for two years told me I was lazy and all I wanted were handouts and expected my dad to pave my way in life for me with child support money, even though I said several times that the reason I disliked my dad was not money related.

Upon further thinking, I realized that she bossed her first husband around all the time, and her house was a mess.  She got fired because she didn't show up for work.  So who is the lazy one here???