My husband and I have been together for 3 1/2 years married for 1 year. We have two young children together. Now my husband isn't as extreme as some of your husbands but I still consider him some type of alcoholic. My husband drinks every single night, and depending on how "stressful" the day has been will determine how much he drinks. On a good day he drinks a 40 and a tall can which gets him borderline drunk, on a bad day he drinks two 40s and sometimes a tall can which gets him drunk. It's on these bad days that we've had our problems but it's starting to bleed into the good days. When he is drinking, especially when he's drunk, it only takes me saying or doing one little thing and he completely blows up at me. It is only when he is drunk does ever go totally ape-**** on me and if I'm lucky the kids are asleep. It's only when he's drunk he pushes me, or chokes me, throws something at me, or hits the wall behind me instead of me. I love him very much and I know he loves me and our kids very much and I don't want to leave him but when the alcohol is in the picture he is no longer the man I know and love and I want to do nothing but pack up the kids and leave until he quits drinking. What should I do?
notsurewhattodo90 notsurewhattodo90
26-30, F
Aug 26, 2014