Not In Me

It's just not in me to be the jealous type. Either I trust a person or I don't. And if I don't trust a person, I don't bother having a relationship with them, in the first place. And if I do trust them, there's nothing to be jealous about. ;-)

I do have a level of confidence. And when I trust a person, I trust them completely. Therefore, I never worry about others taking what is mine, IF that love was meant to be mine in the first place. When love is true and real, then nothing can break it or distract the guy away from me, even when I'm not around. If it not true love and he cheats on me, it means it was never real, anyways. =p

So, I do trust whomever I am dating to be around other girls. It only becomes an issue, if the guy does cheat. And even so, it's not a jealousy towards the other girl. It's an instant hurt to me and then a retreat from the guy! I don't get angry with the other girl or put blame on her. Sure she is a *****, but still she's just being herself. Now, the guy... he was the one committed to me, not her, so if I have any anger it is always towards him only!

And I'm speaking from experience. I have been cheated on before. I never hated or was jealous of the other girls... no, that's silly. But those guys were real jerks! Also the important thing is, I got to know before I ever married them, how much of a jerk-*** they were...and also, found out that the love between us wasn't real. So, I can't complain too much. :-)

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1 Response Mar 14, 2009

Great read, I wish I had that confidence in trust when I was married. The people of EP have have done more to help me know what I've done. Than I ever learned in my 8 years married. This is just one of many problems I have.