I'm not close with my relatives for a few reasons.
1. I am not like any of them. I don't think like them and I don't live my life like them. I don't have the same interest as them.
2. I don't want drama in my life and I don't want to be in others drama. Just about all my relatives live for being in each other's drama. Not me.
3. I don't believe in ignore it it will go away or don't say anything. If you must say something then don't tell the truth that way you don't hurt someone's feelings.
4. If I didn't look like my mother I would swear I was switched in the hospital nursey. How can I be sooooooooooooooo diffeent from my extended family?
These are the reasons I am not close to my relatives.