I Need Your Help...

I recently have in my mind that I may not be the best flirt in the world. (LOL)   I am looking for tips to help me become a more proficient flirter.  If you have any ideas on how I can improve my technique or have any critique of my existing technique please feel free to post. Also if you are looking for tips of your own please post.  Thanks...

fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 57 Responses Aug 30, 2008

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Of course. these were the high quality flirts offering advice lol.

So pleased to read that, fungirlmmm. Do you use any of the tricks listed in my post above? ; )

Oh I think I am a master flirter now.

Some great tips and tricks, posters. Thx!

The sweet girl down the street who flirts mercilessly with me pokes her tongue-tip out between her teeth as she smiles, and shifts her weight from foot to foot as she rotates her hips, and lifts one eyebrow, and twists a strand of hair between her fingertips, and stretches her arms above her head so her top rides up to show her sweet tummy, and tilts her head to one side to exhibit the perfect curve of her neck, and bites her bottom lip, and stretches her long legs and flexes her feet and.... I don't know where they learn this stuff, but it works!

So, fungirlmmm, it's been nearly a year since you posted your story... are you any better at flirting now?

Awe thanks baby! You do it well too. MMMM

You could read the phonebook and my pulse would race and I'd get a tent in my shorts (if i was wearing any). Trust me, flirting is all about attitude and you have IT. ;-)

Oh well, there's hope then - assuming the lessons actually start, some time!

LOL I have learned a lot since then.

LOL You said you were going to teach me to flirt, because I'm no good at it - this isn't exactly confidence building, from a teacher!!

both please.

Wait, first of all are we talking face to face flirting or online flirting?

Oh come now Fungirl... you are a born flirt. And with knees like those, who needs witt and charm anyway... :)

Oh Peter, You seem to be one of the most sincere men I talk to and I just adore you. I genuinely like chatting with you but I am not really good at the guy/girl flirt thing.

And by the way Fungirl, from what I can tell, you do quite a nice job of flirting already. :)

I was never much of a flirt myself. But recently I have discovered something about the subject... What I have learned is that successful flirting is all about your motivation. If your motivation is to try to win someone over or influence them in some way, it won't work very well. People can see right through that.

Successful flirting come when you are genuinely attempting to lift the spirits of the other person, either by complimenting them or just joking around. Making a person feel good about themself or just plain happy will get you far better results than trying to impress them with your witt or charm... But again, your motivation should be genuine, if not it will be transparant.

Don't talk about gas.

Oh Mikie... I am going to have to spank you next tiem I see you. LOL Bad Bad Boy! (Is that better?)

MBF, I do find it sooooo much easier to flirt in person or when a guy can see me... That is a huge advantage these days. LOL

PT, Too bad because I am making you wait a while longer. You love it!!!

Grace, No way ... this is just me being fungirl... Who I really am... NOt really flirty at all. All you peeps help me with that lol.

IT, and you are ooooohhhh so good on here girl... I love to try to flirt with you.

i can't wait.

Would I be alone in saying that I believe this story, and entire comment thread, are both in fact brilliant examples of flirting?

"I need to improve my flirting techniques... help me!!" = best flirting in the world

Awww dhg.. You melt my M&M's

THK, No I am looking for one and when I find him I will let you know. ;p;

What are you saying Love, you probably can write a whole book on flirting!!!!!well that's probably what you are doing, getting ideas for a new book? :D....

Just be yourself, you are a flirt by nature...:D...**HUGZ* and lots of kisses!

Grace, We can all use good giggle.

PT, Just wait until you see what I have planned next.

K9, I try but sometimes I fall short in the flirt department.

IT, If only I can get as good as my hero IT then my job will be effortless lol.

Mikie, Are you saying you love the Southern Accent or was it that I could make my dog mind me without having to change my tone?

NS, You just described me perfectly and yet I can't flirt well. Help me please darling.

AC, What an analogy... I had to giggle loudly.

Lol. This thread is making me giggle my head off.

I beleive your doing one hell of a job right now. i'm the one that needs help.

Big boobs, long blonde hair, great job, great life.... as if you need to flirt


Ignore the Pope!!!!.Excuse me but I live in Italy now!!! LOL!!

You are the one of the best.......................maybe THE best..........LOL!

Are you saying I am good at flirting or that you ignore the Pope? lol

FG not being good at flirting is like saying the Pope is no good at just ain't gonna happen....................LOL!

My favourite chat-up line with women is :

"Get your've pulled"...............