I Am Not What People Expect Wh...

I am not what people expect when they look at me.  I'm tall and I've been told a lot of times that I'm good looking but I'm also quite shy and withdrawn.  Women especially seem to expect me to be a player or to be aggressive but I'm exactly the opposite.  I've seen it time and again that women like me at first but once they see that I'm laid back and quiet they are uninterested.
ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton
41-45, M
12 Responses Jun 1, 2007

That's okay.

well **** all them. some women can be so damn.......<br />

Well judge me however you wish. You don't know me and can't be an accurate judge of my character.

What would the opposite be?

Thanks Elle, I am doing pretty well with not forcing anything and just learning more about myself for now. I'm trying my best to be patient.

There's no such thing as totally 100% introverted or extroverted. People just tend to be more one or the other and it can change from time to time. I've had times in my life that I am very social and talkative but most of the time I am not.

Believe it or not , I used to be an introvert myself!

yeah I'm trying not to call myself shy anymore...I wrote this June 1st so I haven't seen this in a while. I am now using the term introverted in place of shy :-)

I agree with the shy part but i really dislike loud obnoxious men too.

Oh pppplllleeeaaassseee!! If they only knew the real you they'd be jumping through fire to get to you. Ladies step up... this one is sensitive and caring and wants a woman to please and be pleased... go get em...

It's really sad that just because someone is not a loudmouth that they have to be scary. I'm sorry that I come across as frightening to women. That really explains a lot.

I'm looking for a loose woman with a fantastic figure...LOL...I'm totally kidding...that's part of my problem I think, that I don't really know exactly what I'm looking for and I'm too worried about what they think of me. I like women that are independent (not clingy), intelligent, attractive of course, sweet and friendly, and not afraid to speak her mind.