Ignored (not Forgotten) Anniversary
Feeling just a little hurt right now. Unfortunately this is not a new occurrence in this relationship. My man ignored our anniversary today. I specifically say ignored, not forgotten, because he didn't forget it. He knows today was our 5 year anniversary because it is also his birthday and I've gone through a lot of effort to make it a special birthday. It is not a milestone birthday, but I've done a lot of things to make it special including buying him a $200 phone I could barely afford, cake, candles, singing, card and texts. Heard nothing for our anniversary, not even happy anniversary. When I asked him if he remembered what else today is, he says sure its our 5 year. I said, "and?" He says "and, what? You didn't get me anything for our anniversary." Sitting in the parking lot of an expensive Chinese place picking up the dinner that he wanted tonite, crying. I'm just so tired of being disregarded. Any advice? I know I need to end it for good but we have a 9mon old baby together and I don't want him to miss out on the special time that is babyhood/toddlerhood. I feel so worthless anymore that I almost don't feel like I deserve better anymore. Besides who would want to be in a relationship with someone with a baby from another man? Someone who gives too much and doesn't learn from it?