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Friendship is Impossible on internet

I always look for people who are kind and generous but on internet i think everybody acts like that however none of them should be actually the same as they are in real life... I wish to have a friend who would be there with me at all times and would let me become a part of his/ her life.. I want to go outings, click photos,  sing songs, dance off, party on, shout with a real human being.. People on internet are good and kind but they can not replace a real human being.. they just can't... that's why i don't think friendship on internet is possible.. The thought that i would never be able to make a friend via internet makes me wanna delete everything and stop wasting my time here.. but in a hope that someday somehow i will meet a friend in real life i will keep this account open.. : (
Thatsmystyle77 Thatsmystyle77 22-25, M 8 Responses May 18, 2012

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That's, I hope we meet in real life. You sound like my style friend! Until then, blessed be, and stay safe and happy! :-)

Would love to meet you too ^__~


I thought I had found one , really good bonding sessions , then I made a silly joke and he turned psycho on me , you just don't know so be careful , not all is what it seems here I just consider myself having had a lucky escape , I was seriously considering meeting up. Think about that

Australian guy , we clicked pretty good, apparently had been taken for granted and abused by his wife and her mother , I was horrified , he seemed like such a gentle , kind soul and I cursed his wife along with him for treating him so appallingly , he raised her son from another man from 6 months he is now 6yrs but wife has now left as she thought he wasn't good enough and mother thought he wasn't rich enough so they formed this coven against him which drive him to drink as he worked two jobs and felt severly undermined and unappreciated , sex life then goes down the pan ..,,, whatever else ,can go wrong goes wrong , so we talk about my terrible break up and his , exchange photos , even cute little ones of our hands so we can hold hands online daily , talk about each other's day and feelings , so one day he is off line all day and I am doing a jokey little girly sulk , like where have you been all day , really joking and jokingly said and I get , "you are making me feel bad for having a life ! Grrrrr ....,,I hate this Grrrrr..., you women are all the same Grrrr.... Etc etc , (Cnt repeat sme of it ) and I am thinking hello? I thought you told me you don't have a life? You go to work where no one is friendly then come home to bed and EP ? Weekends you work at the bar then come home to bed and EP? You lost all your friends when you split cause they sided with the wife ? I spent the last few weeks advising you on how to get a life , go out , work less , get a hobby , meet new friends , but u insisted all you wanted was me so what is this and where did it come from ? I did not ask all these questions for the roaring in my ears but I take one holiday a year , this year I had decided it was Australia to meet this gorgeous guy I have been dreaming of and rushing off wrk to talk to, now imagine if that happened and I was alone in a foreign country in the middle of nowhere in Australia , alone with him , he proper flipped I fear to think what might have happened FYI I no longer believe the reasons for his split up but I am glad I found out just in time hence my warning to you ....,

Well, swat cat, you never know when you might bump into a person who can teleport & do psychic stuff... :P

Or someone like Doraemon.. XD

Exactamundo! :D

I've been reading the responses & your comments and I agree a bit. I am fortunate to easily make friends. Of course I'm the type that would rather have a few close REAL friends than a bunch of friends that won't be their when you need them. <br />
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Online friendship is a different that being with someone in person, but I wouldn't say it's totally impossible. Of course when you're far you can conduct the friendship like a real one. Real in this case meaning that you aren't physically together, but it could still benefit a person in some way sometimes. It's good to meet like minded people, because then you don't feel like as much of a outcast. Of course finding those people in real life and online can be a challenge but in a way that's what makes it fun. <br />
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Personally I like having online friends and real life friends too. Because there's usually always someone to talk to :3

ok but can u tell me where is the "choose as best answer" button?.. i liked ur reply... :)

Awww thanks :3

u're welcome.. ^__^

In real life may be you are able to do so with friends<br />
but don't you think friendship is not just about similarities but about acceptance of differences too<br />
here you might be able to find friends who are quite different from you and you could learn to accept them.<br />
then again distance is no bar for true friendships.

yes,.. In real life its hard to find people who can accept the differnce which is easy over the internet.. but its hard to meet such people(from internet) in real coz most of them live way too far from me!..

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-Italian Proverb

I.. don't understand what u mean... ???

Certainly found way better freindship online then I ever have in real life, lol.<br />
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Easier with ep as well, to find.. hmm equal minded people, even tho naturaly most people are unique ofc, but far more similar then anyone Ive met in in person.<br />
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Always felt like an alien with everyone I met really, lol.

I feel the same way in real life... like an alien.. lol.. its really so easy to find good people using social networking sites like ep.. but i wish we can actually meet them somehow.. it would be like a wish come true.. ^__^

the warewolf experiment's not workin out?? :P :D

nope.. so now i'm on the weretiger one.. : P

:D maybe weirdtiger????
well i belive a good friendship could come out of the internet...maybe somtimes we just seems to search for people who are a bit far off...?

I always try to search people better than me.. though when i find them they are too far from me.. so shameful... : P