Not Who You Say I Am

It amazes me how today in our society everyone is seeking approval from others. I believe this causes people to think that they are able to label or define one another. People feel like they have the right to tell you who you are, but that is only because you want them to. The thing is you want them to say some thing good and as we all know that is not always the case. I first truly realized this about a year ago when I had to stand alone because I didn't meet the approval of others. I was pregnant. Yup there I was at age 21, a college student, unmarried, and pregnant. Wow the judgments came running in like a flood. The only people who did except me was God and my mom. I move back home and begun going back to church I felt surly they well except me but they didn't. None of my many friends stood with but every one had something to say. It did hurt while I was in it but I could be more thankful for that experience now. In that year I grew beyond measures I found out who I truly was. Because I stood only I learn how to be strong. I also learned I am who I am and nothing anyone says can change. I learn how to love myself when there is no one to love me. I am a single mother but not be because I was I wild college student (I wasn't I was more of a biology geek lol) and not because I was I *****. I'm just me a fun loving person, who genuine love's people, kind, unique, God loving, only changing for the better and tries to see the best in people kinda girl. Try to be the best me there is and not caring what anyone has to say about it!
SugarSoul SugarSoul
22-25, F
Jan 10, 2013