Not Hiding It Anymore

I'm proud of you!

Dani Bear keep the faith! When I stated gaining I didn't think too much about it at first, then I found out I really, really liked it. But, after I gained about 25 or 30 pounds, I discovered my family was coming to visit. I freaked! They'd never seen me like that and there really was no way to hide it even though I tried to by wearing loose fitting clothes.. I got some looks of disapproval but, no one said anything - at least to my face. After they left I took a long look at myself in the mirror in what was supposed to be fat camouflage clothes and guess what? I looked fat. I looked fat then and I look fat now. I am fat! And I love it! I love how it makes me feel, it makes me feel very feminine. I love how it jiggles, and in some strange way, I love how it makes me look. Dani, life's too short to be miserable trying to be thin. Enjoy your extra curves!

im sorry. wish i could help :( add me?

I wish I could help

I wish I could help you, but if you're in a family like that then you probably don't live in Texas also our place isn't big enough for a 4th person, let alone a growing one. But keep your chin up, life always gets better, sometimes it has to take the scenic route to get there, but it always gets better.

I wish I could do something about it. I want to shout on top of the highest mountain that fat is beautiful sexy and so free. I mean it's the best feeling eating what you want when you want and have no worries bout it just happiness with every gaining pound :)

I am in the same situation, except one way I relief the stress and pressure of it is I don't try to explain myself to others about it, I don't push against them. I also don't let them distract me from how good I feel when I think about fat women and weight gain. It is hard to hold your ground emotionally when it feels like the whole world is against you, but each day I am getting better and better at it. One day the world around me will conform to the conditions I feel inside of me!

I know what you mean. I love all things fat it's a shame the whole world has such negative vibes with lovely soft fat :)