Very Wrong Habbit......

I have a very bad habbit.... If I have a guy over for dinner and I do like him, I have the habbit of having him leave and play with myself instead of trying to get some real sex.....

I do that because I'm very afraid that the sex will be dissapointing and I never dissappoint myself ...

Does anyone understand this?

linda linda
26-30, F
10 Responses Feb 13, 2007

i feel the same, and i act the same

If you're with a guy who really knows how to lick you for the first ****** and then finds your g- spot for the second ****** and then has his turn bringing you to your third climax, then I think you'll find it more interesting than doing it by yourself....

Or you could let them stay and watch you, then boot them out the door lol

It's funny how ************ is supossed to so bad, but feels so good. What can possibly be wrong with making your self feel good. The truth is, you have to how to make your self feel good, before someone else can learn to touch you the right way. Don't feel guilty about giving yourself pleasure.

If the woman I am having sex with is counting cracks in the cieling, then its definitely time for a change up. LOL - that's hilarious. but honestly, I've been with women that, no matter what I did, just laid there like a corpse - YUCK! Get involved sweetheart, let's make this great thing happen together! so yea, probably would have been better to just rub one out instead.....

... yes, it happens... my very first sex partner was an absolutely beautiful knockout ... she was gorgeous ... but she didn't screw for **** ... she just lay there like a bump on a log .. or a hole in a log... but she looked so good that, being my first piece of tail... I didn't realize how much better it could be... so it was great for me that my first piece was good looking and not so hot, since some of the later girls weren't all that great to look at, but WOW ... knock your socks off terrific in bed... I've been trying to locate one of those girls off and on for a few years now... I think the good looking ones never had to "work" for it, so they think all they have to do is lie there and be catered to??? ... but I've had some beautiful ones that were great in bed, so ... I guess it's just up to the individual girl ... if they really like to participate or not... but even bad sex is good sex... you can always go home (or stay there) and ma$turbate after a disappointing piece of A$$... it just might let your partner know that he/she just didn't quite make the grade...

why bother having to question yourself if you are making a mistake. i have several men that i have had sex with that i wish i had just *********** instead. i know that i wouldn't have been counting the cracks in the ceiling if i had my way... :) hee hee

My guess is that you are all women. Well, from a male's point of view - I agree with all of you - I am never dissatisfied when alone...

My guess is that you are all women. Well, from a male's point of view - I agree with all of you - I am never dissatisfied when alone...

yea most of the time i feel like sex is over rated, ive never had a ******* during intercourse only when mastubating, sex is very dissapointed for me so i dont even bother

!!! OH MY!!! Somebody is having sex with all the wrong people! Methinks you need to find a new sex partner ...

Yes - I understand completely and I think you are very wise. You won't get a disease and he will still respect you and, if you really like eachother, then one day you can have sex. It will be all the better for having waited.<br />
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By the way, habit is spelt with one b.