Just Gotta Vent A Little

I don't hate men but they do make me very angry!!!  I'm so tired of their selfishness, sense of entitlement, and I resent the fact that society views men as more credible.  I do realize that not all men are like this but generally speaking they are, and I'm really not trying to bash men, I'm  just simply venting.  I'm also angry at women you still cater to their every need.  Most men are too spoiled and WE need to stop!  It's start's with their mother's and then when they grow up they expect the same from their girlfriends/wives.  I just don't buy into this bullshit and I'm not going to do it.  When I'm in a romantic relationship with a man I put in my 100% and I expect the same in return.  I simply treat them the way I would like to be treated as I do with every person I come across no matter what the relationship is. 

I'm tired of the expectations that are put on me as a woman.  NO, I don't wear make up everyday! NO, I don't style my hair! NO, I don't shave on a regular basis!!  I do these only when I CHOOSE to. Of course there is nothing wrong with wanting to look good for your significant other but to be expected to look good 24/7 is not only insane but unrealistic.  I'm not changing for anybody so your just gonna have to accept me the way I am!  This expectation to be totally feminine all the time is bullshit!  I am very comfortable with my masculine side and I like to express just like I like to express my feminine side!

Whew! I feel better!

loudamy loudamy
26-30, F
11 Responses Mar 1, 2010

I actually don't like it when a woman wears too much makeup, or wears it everyday. So superficial. I also don't expect a woman to shave everyday or style her hair all the time.

thank god for at least one man who realizes doing ur hair up every day gets old and having to shave every day is fruitless...

My ex girlfriend was so self-conscious about a small patch of grey hair, that she kept coloring her hair. It took me months to convince her that she was beautiful regardless. I know that just about everyone gets caught up in exotic images of what beauty is, and it's unfortunate that some of our women can't see their natural beauty.

even I get caught up with those exotic images, doesn't help that Im a hair stylist lol

<p>I have yet to see a man who can keep their manhood to one woman, <br />
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ya, iv meet men who say .. I'm a one woman man and I don't abuse women,<br />
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both of the men I have been involved with, were abusive and both said they don't abuse women ... go figure</p>

I'm a one woman man and I don't abuse women. I'm not looking for appalause, it's just that as a history student and an increasing fan of anthropology, I'm becoming more and more aware that women are indeed, undervalued and objectified as sex objects. I too, am damaged by mental images of ****, and the subtle rape culture that we are apart of. I'm not proud of it, nor do I pass judgement. I could go on and on, but I saw a documentary by produced and directed Dr. Carmen Boulter called the Pyramid Code, and in part of this documentary she points out that pre-history was matriarchal and the feminist consciousness was honored. She presented the evidence so well and I have watched it multiple times.
My eyes are slowly, yet surely being opened. Pray for me.

iv had 6 people to rate up my comment about men not keeping their penis to one women , and it shows only 1 rate ..

the mra are at work here.

Are you gay.

Hey, i like everything you've said. I have been lucky enough to have been with nice men before but I sure encountered one that made me feel... well, everything you said.

TOTAL agreement here! More power to you! <br />
I,too,get so fed up with being 'used' by so-called men! They expect too much!<br />
It's interesting that they seem to think they can (And do and get away with it for some reason!) treat people how they like and do what they like - regardless - but you try and do the same thing and Major different story!!

Thanks sgtdemanda and stormaewish! Yeah I'm not worried about the earlier comments. I'm very thankful that they helped me prove my point ;-)<br />
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And thanks Val for being the wonderful friend that you are! I love you!!!

*applause* Hope you feel a bit better gettin that out! Ignore the haters that commented. They have no concept of the pressures on us and shouldn't comment on something they can't understand. I got your back :)

makes sense to me, chic... <br />
in our society women are second class citizens. don't agree? think about this... <br />
how often do you see women walking around dressed like men? do they often get pointed, and laughed at? no because we see them as trying to 'better' themselves... <br />
when was the last time you saw a guy in public dressed like a woman? did you point and laugh? maybe not openly but i bet you nudged your buddy, saying 'check that out, dude!'<br />
why? because as a society we see them as lowering themselves to be like women. <br />
women are looked at as pieces of meat. point blank. and even they are beginning to accept this... that is why more and more women are getting boob jobs, so they feel better about themselves... WTF? if you want to feel better about yourself go accomplish something... get a degree, get a better job... getting a boob job just makes you a more attractive piece of meat. han<br />
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and if you don't think that our society caters to men, dress yourself up like a woman and step out into the world... chances are, you are more likely to end up on peopleofwalmart.com and being ridiculed than actually taken seriously.

This is not venting - this is Hatred. Your anger and hatred certainly are clear. You made the choice to believe what the current crop of Gender Studies at Liberal College have wrought; namely to Actively Hate Men. Does that include your Father? Typically, I don't get into argumentation in this area, but your remarks have forced me to completely agree with WTHAY's sarcastically brief but well-spoken response. People on this site complain precisely about this type of spewing of negativity that makes many, many leave because of it's caustic effect on others. This behavior of hatred towards Men has made us hate you and your ilk in return. So the hatred spreads. Does it feel good to hate us and know that we hate you back? Did two wrongs make one right? I really hope that you think about that. I've seen this before and the consequences it brought to others. You do have choices - become a lesbian or continue to blame. You'll have a lot of anger and hatred over a long period of time to look forward to if you go ahead and choose to remain a victim forever.


Are you high?<br />
No, seriously.<br />
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Wow.<br />
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Here's a helpful tip:<br />
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Gender Studies = Feminist Ideology = Brainwashing<br />
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And it's all bullshit.<br />
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Also,<br />
men ******* rule.