I have been working on my wife for some years now to take a lover and lock me in chastity. Several times while having s*x for the past year I got her to say several different things including : "I am going to have a boyfriend and *uc* him right in front of you!" and "I promise to try a boyfriend!" along with "I promise to be a bit** to you" and "I promise to boss you around more." I just ordered her some books on male chastity and Femdom. I have talked to her about it before and for some time now, but she has been unresponsive. Losing her or screwing up our relationship is not an option and I do love her with all my heart. I will be OK if she never pursues this with me, but boy oh boy does the thought of being under her foot and strict control turn me on!!! We have been together for 13 years and are each other's soul mate! I have a very dark kinky side to me and it is gnawing away at me to come out!!! I have thought about buying a chastity device and locking on myself and surprising her with the key, but I am afraid of freaking her out. Let's see what happens after reading all the books I bought for her. Stay Tuned!!!!