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The Term "fcuk Buddy". Does It Lead To More??

By: GhostRyder00
Written on February 24th, 2010
Age: 31-35 , Male
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21 responses
  • whitepants

    Sometimes, some say friendship first but who really knows, every relationship is different so you won't really know unless you give it a go. Good luck

    6 days ago
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  • mb670

    Sex can lead to love and I do not think she has been with you for 8 years and would not have some kind of feelings for you but the real question here is going to be trust. If you do have feeelings for her, then I would pursue her and as a friend you should be there for her in her time of need. nothing vetured nothing gained.

    Dec 6, 2012
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  • Ziptie4777

    It can. It really depends on the people involved. Take your time. Communicate what you want and how you feel. Go from there...

    Dec 6, 2012
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  • Bambam2011

    You know about the physical attraction, but you have to find out if there is anything more. A relationship is more than just sex. So you can keep it as sex or try dating.

    Nov 11, 2012
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  • hammerhead1949

    Why not?

    Oct 23, 2012
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  • laurapetrie

    Yep!!

    Oct 23, 2012
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  • HotDrumSticks

    Well get off ep now & get busy!

    Sep 1, 2012
    2 likes
  • alleyes

    Sure did for me and my wife - we both divorced our respective spouses, married each other 25 years ago and never looked back.

    1 day ago
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  • Chuck60

    Love isn't something you can turn on & off. I think the question is "do you like her?" Is she someone you can spend time with and time seems endless. It may take weeks, months even years to evolve into a love relationship. I think you have to like someone, really like someone before it evolves into love. You can be compatible and have great sex! Good sex is someone with experience who is like you in your endeavors. You can love someone and have bad sex. I would just go with the flow and let the relationship develop. When you start putting an expectation on your partner the question then you must ask "is it fair to her?" Time does take care of everything!!

    Aug 6, 2012
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  • wupe

    Meet her and talk to her! See if yo ucan be friends as well as ****! that would be a good basis for a relationship! Try it!

    Apr 18, 2012
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  • scotstah

    HELLOOOOO???? No! Sex leads to babies, and then the sex stops and someone who might have loved you, just walks on by.......

    Apr 13, 2012
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  • 0n1WOW

    Of course! If love leads to sex, it's the same thing because you get fonder with the person especially if he/she is good in bed! But you're the only one who can decide if you wanna pursue her or not. Sex and love doesn't come altogether when you feel or do it. Which is better for you, Love without sex or sex without love? Love needs time and when you have sex, you need more time! If you do have a great time in bed, love might follow. If not, be sexmates forever.

    Feb 17, 2012
    3 likes
  • 1212Jenny

    Try !!! Give yourself a chance to be happy!!!

    Feb 17, 2012
    3 likes
  • GarciaMarquez

    Sometimes love comes first, sometimes sex. Sometimes sex doesn't follow love. Sometimes love doesn't follow sex. There is no question to be answered here. If you want more, look for it. If you don't, don't. But remember, you both have the capacity to cheat, if you consider that what you've been doing constitutes cheating.

    Aug 21, 2011
    3 likes
  • RiversideMan

    comfort her mind for a change, maybe it would lead to something really great!

    May 28, 2011
    4 likes
  • stehig1

    Why don't you just keep her as a **** buddy, then you can persue your other intrests

    May 28, 2011
    1 like
  • brucefj1s

    "Nothing ventured, nothing gained" What have you to loose? If it doesn't happen at least you will know that you gave it a chance.

    Feb 4, 2011
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  • Indygreg

    "what if"...is a cruel game that draws no conclusion unless you ask for the answer. It's easier to ponder than to ask because you may not like the real answer, but if you don't ask you don't know what you're missing

    Jan 17, 2011
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  • Indygreg

    "what if"...is a cruel game that draws no conclusion unless you ask for the answer. It's easier to ponder than to ask because you may not like the real answer, but if you don't ask you don't know what you're missing

    Jan 17, 2011
    2 likes
  • platerpuss

    Maybe you are looking for what you had before. Lust is not love. Remember, don't let the little head rule th big head.

    May 4, 2010
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  • jennygirl111

    Depends on the situation, I'm sure it's possible to fall in love with someone that you originally only went to for sex.

    Mar 4, 2010
    3 likes