I'm a big girl. yes. I hate myself for it...no. Why the hell should I? I love my curves...and so do others. It's really sad that so many girls do horrible things to their body b/c they don't like what they see when they look in the mirror. Young girls who make themselves vomit, take all kinds of pills and get surgeries and go on crazy diets. It really makes me depressed and also quite disgusted. In a society that tells the world that thin is in and the only way to be sexy, I can understand why ppl would hate to be fat. But what I don't understand I how you could let someone's point of view ruin your happiness. Ive been called every name in the book and yea as a child it really got to me but after growing up some, and becoming more secure in who I am, it really didn't bother me so much. Yes I have my days where I don't feel so hot but for everyday I feel ugly, I have had 3 days where I felt beautiful. Don't let your image of yourself be based on what others think because they really don't matter in the least.