By RequestOne of my many friends and fans here at EP requested that I post a story about this, so here goes.
It is true that I am blessed to be married to a magnificent man who pampers and spoils me relentlessly. He is master of his world, successful, accomplished, wealthy, and attends to every detail of our lives together. Under his loving care, I want for nothing. He provides for all my needs, including food, shelter, clothing, protection, health care, entertainment, transportation, just everything.
I do not see how any woman can ever be expected to surrender control of herself and to give herself body and soul to any man who is not well able to provide for her and for her children. I think every wife should be in total submission to her husband, which is why I counsel women to be very careful about choosing a husband. To be worthy of a woman's submission, a man must have proven ability and adequate resources to care for his woman. If a woman is to become his most prized possession, belonging to him completely, then he must live a disciplined life, a balanced life, displaying the highest character. How can any man ever accept responsibility for the control of a wife, if he is not able to control himself? He cannot be flawed or weak, but must be a manly man, virile and vigorus, an example to all men of what a man is intended to be. He must be accomplished and successful, completely capable and well able to exercise control of his wife.
I reccomend that women marry a man who is older, one whom they look up to and admire, one who is above them in both experience and wisdom. He must be able to be their teacher and mentor, guiding and directing their development, molding them into his most prized possession. No wife should ever be left to her own devices, as that is a plan for disaster. Women need and want a man who takes complete control of them. Left on their own, women will inevitably attack, tear down, belittle and try to destroy that very thing that they so need and that is so key to their happiness. Lacking the loving but firm guidance of their magnificent husband, women will almost certainly make themselves miserable and will do their very best to make their husband miserable as well.
it is no small responsibiity to accept control of a wife. Not every man is up to the task. Many men will neglect their duty, and will wind up with an undisciplined wife who is in rebellion to their husband's authority. It is the man's fault for allowing this to happen, which is why women must choose their husband very carefully.
To enjoy the blissful happiness that is the natural result of surrendering herself to a masterful husband, a woman must be her own best asset. She must not only carefully choose her husband, but she must eagerly accept his teaching and lessons. She must embrace his guidance and direction, knowing that every minute detail, no matter how insignificant it may seem to her at the time, is for her own good, and that her husband is simply doing his duty and insuring that she knows exactly what is expected of her. A man may tolerate the rebelliousness and stiff-necked resistance of his wife for some period of time, but eventually he will demand her submission to his will, or else he will abandon her for another wife who is more easily molded into the wife of his dreams.
I see so many women who chose their husband so poorly. And I see so many women who are so unhappy because they refuse to be in submission to their husband. They abound and even though they are unhappy with their marriages, they refuse to admit that it is their own willfull stubborn selfishness that is the root cause of their problems.
If a woman wants to be pampered and spoiled, basking in the loving care of her magnificent masterful husband, then she owes it to herself to learn these lessons and to accept the reality of being the perfect submissive wife.