I Am Forced To Pierce Nose. But Im Loving It Now.

I am a 28 year male. For a long time i had a dream of learning and performing Kuchipudi and Bharatnatyam in front of a huge gathering. After long discussions and suggestions i joined a dance institute in Vittakarun, Karnataka. I paid 22,000 as a joining fee including boarding fee. Initially it was fine. I have learnt a very good part of Kuchipudi and Bharatnatyam . During the initial classes itself i was asked by the head instructor  to get my ears pierced as it is important to bring the feel of dance and it is part of accessories for a dancer. They arranged for it and made holes in my ears. Since then she kept on forcing me to remove the wires in the ears and put the big jewellery to be accustomed to dance shows. I was made as one of the female team dancers behind a senior student and we would give shows in various towns. For this i have to wear all the female jewellery which includes big basket earrings of pearl type things which are too thick to put into my holes. My eye brow are shoven and the earrings pains a lot while dancing. I have to wear heavy anklets while dancing.And for the nose jewellery i was put fake rings and studs.

But recently in a show my nose ring slipped while dancing. Since then she started forcing me to pierce my nose. I said no i can't. But she is adamant that i should pierce both my nosetrills and septumwhich i don't want to as i have to go back my home once the course is finished. But she is saying i will not be arranged the final test and govt certificate will not be given. My love towrads the art is forcing me to stay here and for my living i have to perform .

Then one day i got a call early morning from the head to meet immediately. I went to her. She introduced me to Mr.Akerajappa, A very senior dancer aged 60 and told him about my reluctance to pierce nose. Then he asked me about my passion for dance. I expressed my love towards dance. He then showed some older photos of a female dancer recieving many awards for her performances. He asked me would you like to be in her position. I said yes.

Then he said they were his photos when he was young. He said if you have a passion for dance then you will have to learn to adjust to all dancing rolls that are given to you. Then only you can be a comlete dancer. I accepted his words. Then the next day i told our head that i am ready for it. First she made me pierce both my nose trills and after three weeks i was pierced my septum and two more piercings were added on my ears towards the upper side. Within two months everything is healed and i am now able wear all kind of rings and mukoothus. I started wearing sarees and blouses and maintaining my figure in a shape to do all the roles. Just recently got one more pircing on the top of the ear to complete 10 holes on each ear. Now there is no jewellery that i can't wear being a male. I am enjoying both the sexualities. My payments are improved now. But to be frank now i like to be more in female attire than in male.
senofram senofram
26-30, M
13 Responses Apr 10, 2011



Good experience dear
I like it

Love your story and envy you. You look fantastic in your photos and you should keep on going fem.

Again I pierced my ears recently. U can see it in my recent photo. Had pierced my ears in my childhood but unfortunately my studs broken when i was on 10th standard of of my schooling. My friend helped my to pierce again. Thanks for him creating me this opportunity again.

very gud story

Good story !

Good story !

Good story !

I like your story! Good

Hi Senofram,<br />
How are you , being amale barathanatyam dancer you have pierced your ears, both nose & septum,<br />
I felt very much happy for your for your nose piercing being a male.<br />
I am also a male and i also have pierced my both nostrils, as it was suggested by my wife.I am wearing both side since 3 years the day of piercing. In the beginning I felt shy for few months later it got adjusted to my life style & I am very much enjoing it. <br />
I am planning to go for septum piercing please let me know whether it is painful than the nostril piercing or no. My both nostrils were pierced on the same day with in a gap of few minites.<br />
with in few days I am planning to go for septum piercing . please reply me fast.

I have pierced my both nostril as well as septum and it is not painful more than nostril. If have 15 piercings in each ear. If you can bear the pain of both nostril, you can also bear the pain of septum piercing. Finally you will enjoy to wear the septum ring or jewellery. Do not hesitate.

Best of luck.

Dear Sukesh, Thanks for your suggession. Yesterday I got pierced my septum &amp; wearing a septum jewellery. As you told the septum piercing is not much pain compared to nostrills piercing.In my both nostrils I am wearing single stone studs. I feel it will not suit with the septum jewellery. I feel I have go for a bestri on i side &amp; a stud with 3 diamond drops hanging.Pl suggest me, Any way I am feeling very much happy for my septum piercing with the jewellery.

Dear Radha and all,
Please, upload your photo. I have observed that a lot of guys have not upload their photos. Everybody should upload thier photo.

Dear Radha You have seen my photo in which i wear nose stud both side and septum ring as well as multiple ear rings. Are realy not looking good. Please tell me.

Hi, I could not see your album, because if I try to open it replies as " content filtring setting prevents from seeing photo. Pl. help me how to come out of this problem &amp; see your photo.

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Just like atrue story.<br />
i liked your story too much.<br />
best of luck for the next story.

See how things do change. Person who was not interested in even earrings , now enjoys feminity. Great. I have seen your photos where you move as a lady outside that too wearing all jewelery that you desire. Great. I wish i could do this.