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I Am Plus Size and Beautiful

Dangerous Curves!

By: emptyheart
Written on February 11th, 2008
Age: 41-45 , Female
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15 responses
  • InsanelyMe08

    You are so lovely my dear =)



    Your confidence is inspiring.

    Dec 6, 2009
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  • lonelybrokenhearted

    YAY!!! Im 17 years old, and have had issues with not liking how I look, what girl doesnt? But I like my "extra" weight, if not for it then I wouldnt be a DD, which I love! I feel complete(not because of the size) because I think that i look damn good! If I were to lose 50 pounds and be my "ideal" weight.... I wouldnt be me, I wouldnt be as confident, and i would look like i was sick! i cannot see me at 124 lbs....ewwwww.... and u know what? I like my body, and I think im sexy when i dance! lol. there are so many heavier girls and women out there who love dancing but dont want to because of what others may say..... who cares, dance! have fun! people will see that ur having fun, and they will want to have fun with u! and if they dont, then they dont matter anyhow. Good luck to all my voluptious sisters! Love urselves as u r, and worry not what others think.
    and if u r worried about weight, think of this, if you have larger breasts, think about how much they alone weigh.....then subtract that from ur weight! I always feel better! lol, lots of love!!!!

    Sep 16, 2008
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  • Generika

    Beautiful story! Just one thing.....why wouldn't you be perfect at this size? Skinny is not guaranteed perfection. Perfection to me is acceptance of all facets of your being. You truly radiate, emptyheart!

    Aug 5, 2008
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  • SavingMissy

    This is such an important message to all girls of all ages....I fought an eating disorder when I was only 9 yrs old.....and then hospitalized for dehydration because of it. I now have a weak kidney and I am constantly running to the bathroom. I live with that memory of the consequence to having an unhealthy self-mage of my body and my self. I am now a size 12 and I am content and know that I am healthy, sexy and not only do I have outer beauty but I have inner beauty most importantly.....EH, Thanks for sharing! ((hugs)) from SavingMissy

    Aug 2, 2008
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  • psycokitten

    Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, but the true beauty comes from within. I have been large all of my life and heard the comments all the time about what a pretty face I have and how I would be beautiful if only I would lose some weight. I am me, this is the package I come in and I happen to love it! I am very comfortable in the skin I am in. I would never change my body size or shape to make another person happy. I hear plus sized women say they have missed out on so much because they have extra weight...why?? Why let other peoples expectations or perceptions get in the way of you living your life to the fullest??? What consequence do their opinions have in your life anyway? Too many people give far too much power over to the world around them instead of harvesting that power and using it to feel good about themselves. If every woman were a size 4 the world would be boring, not to mention flat...lol. I like my womanly voluptuous shape. Hold your head high and look the world in the face and be proud of the woman you are...curves and all!

    Jul 20, 2008
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  • cani

    Thank you! After being thin for most of my adult life, I've recently gained quite a bit of weight and have been feeling really unattractive. Your story is a real wake up call to appreciate my new curves and to let myself feel pretty and sexy again.

    Jul 19, 2008
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  • CuriosityKitten

    Thick chicks are beautiful, rockin' goddesses!!

    Jul 7, 2008
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  • jackkgrace

    I wish I had some curves and I'm a guy, I'm as skinny as the proverbial rake! I like women to be women shaped, not shaped like me because that is just damned unattractive. Now don't get me wrong I'm happy with my shape, and most of the really relaxed people I know are happy with their shape. I find the body fascism so prevalent today loathesome and destructive.







    Jack

    Jul 8, 2008
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  • lynnz10

    I wish I had curves.

    Jun 27, 2008
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  • Dimples87

    Great story, and I agree with Londonmolly, this story should be shared with all the plus size women in the world. It's a great message.

    Jun 23, 2008
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  • londonmolly

    It's really important to share this story & this message.

    Jun 18, 2008
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  • mahler

    Well done emptyheart, I think most men prefer curves to a woman with ribs that you can play a tune on! Stay as happy and as beautiful as you are.

    Jun 15, 2008
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  • oak

    It's so important to like yourself.

    Until I was 37 I worried about being so under-weight (I didn't look healthy). Now I have middle-age weight & have a whole new fight.

    I went to Weight Watchers & the desired weight that I stopped at was not the desired weight my husband wanted. I guess he liked the unhealthy me.

    I work out & I'm aiming for a more packed look. But I do not want to loose my curves, & I told him so. He never compliments me anyway. But I do get some rewarding looks from other men.

    Anyway, I feel good.

    Feb 13, 2008
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  • trixi

    very enlightened indeed :) hooray for you!

    Feb 11, 2008
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  • findinme

    I think it is wonderful that you have such a strong sense of self esteem. I think it is so important to hold onto that.

    Feb 11, 2008
    2 likes