I Am Pregnant And Alone
Hi I am going through some problems and would love some advise!
I met my boyfriend 2 yrs ago and already had a baby from a previous relationship..
He was amazing he did everything for me and helped with my baby like she was his own.
He had 2 kids from a previous maridge too.
A year on I got pregnant with our own baby who is now 5 months. He neglected me when I was pregnant and didn't enjoy and share it with me like he should of.. And put his other kids 1st.
When I had her he moved in with us.. I no im not perfect but I tried my best for him and gave him all my love. I helped with his kids, I did nearly everything for ours doing night feeds doin everything all day cuz he works nights and longggg hours..
He was very misserable and picked arguments with me and went very cold on me so untold him to leave.
He is now living at his friends and having his kids there.
He begged for a chance and said he loved me and would do anything to get me back..
So I have him one and a week ago I find out that I'm pregnant so he's gone cold again
He's 38 and I'm 20 and he's telling me to get an abortion ASAP and he doesn't want the baby at all !!
He said he won't come round, he won't get use to it and the baby has thrown a right spanner in the works.
Iv asked him were me and him stand so I can make a decision about the baby. I need to no if me and him are gonna live together and be a propper family but he said he wants time??
How can u drag it out and be away from us when we need him.
I'm constantly sat alone lookin after the kids and thinking about this baby coming.
What do I do?? I just don't know!!
He doesn't no weather to live together etc yet we've got a new baby.
But he said he loves me and wants it to work???
He said the situation isn't right for the baby but Iv asked him to change and move back in and he said he's too old now.
He does family things with his other kids but hardly anything with us. I just wanna be special to him!!
Wat do I do about the baby. How could I bring up 3 kids without him?
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I met my boyfriend 2 yrs ago and already had a baby from a previous relationship..
He was amazing he did everything for me and helped with my baby like she was his own.
He had 2 kids from a previous maridge too.
A year on I got pregnant with our own baby who is now 5 months. He neglected me when I was pregnant and didn't enjoy and share it with me like he should of.. And put his other kids 1st.
When I had her he moved in with us.. I no im not perfect but I tried my best for him and gave him all my love. I helped with his kids, I did nearly everything for ours doing night feeds doin everything all day cuz he works nights and longggg hours..
He was very misserable and picked arguments with me and went very cold on me so untold him to leave.
He is now living at his friends and having his kids there.
He begged for a chance and said he loved me and would do anything to get me back..
So I have him one and a week ago I find out that I'm pregnant so he's gone cold again
He's 38 and I'm 20 and he's telling me to get an abortion ASAP and he doesn't want the baby at all !!
He said he won't come round, he won't get use to it and the baby has thrown a right spanner in the works.
Iv asked him were me and him stand so I can make a decision about the baby. I need to no if me and him are gonna live together and be a propper family but he said he wants time??
How can u drag it out and be away from us when we need him.
I'm constantly sat alone lookin after the kids and thinking about this baby coming.
What do I do?? I just don't know!!
He doesn't no weather to live together etc yet we've got a new baby.
But he said he loves me and wants it to work???
He said the situation isn't right for the baby but Iv asked him to change and move back in and he said he's too old now.
He does family things with his other kids but hardly anything with us. I just wanna be special to him!!
Wat do I do about the baby. How could I bring up 3 kids without him?
X
By:
Lydialillie
Age:
18-21
,
Female
