What? Why Is That a Goal of Yours?
I am not crazy, I just think I'd be better off not "obligating" any man who was my friend/lover to hang around. My mother was single until I was three and my adoptive father has ownership issues with us both.
Me and my future child can and will be OK alone and if the day comes when a good person wants to join our family, then, *cheers*...but....
It's not a requirement and I won't get myself "into the condition" without an excellent support circle and a kind man as the father.