I Had A Perfect Life. I Ruined It With A Blessing.

I am 15 and turn 16 in March. I got really close to this guy and we had sex twice. But the thing is we used condoms and I was on birth control. But right now I am showing many signs and symptoms of being pregnant. He doesn't talk to me anymore, he wont even look at me in the hallways. And I know he isn't going to be there for me when I need him. I haven't told anyone except my friend Keesha. I am so scared to tell my parents. Before I started seeing him they made me promise not to have sex and I did. I disobeyed them and they are never going to trust me again! I cant even imagine what people are going to say about me. I had everything. A loving family, good friends, good grades, and a full future ahead of me. I already had college offers and now im not even sure if I can do any of this. Help me!!!
MightyToSave MightyToSave
8 Responses Jan 11, 2013

There are many organizations that will be glad to help you; helping pregnant and new mothers in need is their reason for being. They will help you to keep your baby if that is what you want, or will arrange adoption if that is what you decide is best for you and your baby. If your parent kicks you out they will take you in and arrange for a place for you to live.
You will have the rest of your pregnancy to decide what you want to do. If you want adoption there is open adoption, where you can visit with your baby and even get your baby back when you are an adult and have a stable home, or closed adoption where you will not know with who or where your baby is until s/he is 18 and wants to meet you.
If you choose abortion it may come back to "haunt" you while if you carry to term you will not have taken your baby's life.

If ur adopting, did u already found the couple to adopt? Mu hubby and are have been dealing wt recurrent miscarriages and we are broken heated, to say the least... If u are still considering adsorption, please consider us, we have so much love to offer..please let me know...thank u

I am a 14 year old guy and am really close with this girl. We both really love each other and now she wants a baby. I want one to. I have everything you said, good grades, good friends, college money but I don't know which side to choose.

If its true love, then it will last through the years. I would recommend waiting. Personally, I would wait until I have graduated college and have a job.

if u want to know if you are pregnant if you have yahoo messenger email me with it an il tell u if u are

Hello,I guess it was too early to start your sex life...Since it is personal,I recommend to do the test alone.Are you thinking of keeping your baby?If you pretend to have an abortion,tell your parents,if possible,or go to the nearest clinic as early as you can.Do a search about the laws of where you live,because IF you plan to keep your baby,you MAY have the right to choose if you want or not...Good luck,and choose carefully.

It's kind of hard to deal with at the beginning. When i first found out i was pregnant i was yrs, I'm 15 yrs old now. I didn't know what to do. I'm 9 months pregnant now. My babies dad hasn't even been there for me at all through my whole 9 months. Yeah he's called but hasn't really meant what he said. I just started blanking him out and my parents and I have been doing this baby thing on our own. If you really need someone to talk to, you can talk to me. I've been through it. It's hard, but you can still make it. Still go to school, and you can still attend college. Here's what someone with expericence told me, "it is going to be harder but you can still succeed!" godbless you <3 and i totally would give you my number so you can talk to someone you relate to and who understands you, just message me and i will send you my number. You should really tell your parents though, I had to tell mine to get help, even though they were heated. Much support for you and your life and bundle of joy:)

The first thing you need to do is go to the doctor before you think your life is over. Sometimes a so called mistake can turn out to be a beautiful blessing. If you are, you have so many options out there. There are so many people like me who would give anything to be a mommy and if you are, you have the ability to change someones life forever. If you need someone to talk to I'm here.......

Well if there's an open clinic close to where you live, get your friend to take you there after school or something and get a test, if it's your doctor they won't tell your parents until you have to. But that way you can make sure