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Pregnancy Put Me Through Hell.

I was 10 weeks pregnant before my abortion. Though morning sickness is normal my symptoms were too an extreme. I could not hold ANY food down unless I ate in extremely small amounts. I threw up first thing in the morning even after having nothing in my stomach I would throw up. Before pregnancy I was 135 pounds when I got my abortion I was 128. I had not gained weight or the nutrients I needed to support and help the child grow.  My hair would fall out in clumps and I would bruise very easily.  I was constantly depressed and stayed in bed all day crying and sick. I wanted this child. I loved this child and it was only slowly killing me.  My fiance and I discussed abortion. It seemed like the right thing to do. I went in for the pill abortion only to be told I was too far along for it (late by a few days) and I had a week before the suction abortion to think about it. I was upset. I wanted this child. I truly did. But I couldnt handle any more of the pain. I thought it wasn't going to be as bad. Ive heard about other women's morning sickness and I wasn't expecting something as horrible as what I went through. The people in the clinic were the kindest most caring people ever. Genuine. Every pro lifer says the clinic was terrible for them, but they helped me and made the experience quick and almost completely painless.  The pro life protesters outside were stupid. Honestly because almost ALL of the people I saw in that clinic were coming for STD tests, birth control, or pregnancy tests! They were taking responsibility while these people out there were calling them irresponsible. I feel much better now than I did before and am extremely happy. I do regret the loss of my child but for the pro lifers out there. BIRTH CONTROL METHODS FAIL. Nothing is 100% would you rather have an innocent child being raised by terrible incompetent parents for the rest of their lives? Living in their own personal hell? Being abused and neglected? Or up in heaven being taken care of by the lord? What sounds better to you? Surely they could have been more "Responsible" but birth control methods do sometimes fail or "married" but even when people are married it doesn't make them acceptable and suitable to be parents???? You tell me.
sarange sarange 18-21 5 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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I hear that a hysterectomy is 100% foolproof. It sure beats infanticide, don't you think? :)

Isn't it interesting how a smiley-face can make you look like even more of a c*nt?

Gee Winston, is it that time of the month? lol :)

Oh snap. You got me.

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No worries Winston, you know I'm just joshing :)

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your decision to abort is your business and no on elses, including the pro life zealots who protest outside of clinics. they need to save their protesting for the women that carry a child for 9 months, give birth and then murder it. casey anthony, susan smith to name just a few. those are the real murderers.

your decision to abort is your business and no on elses, including the pro life zealots who protest outside of clinics. they need to save their protesting for the women that carry a child for 9 months, give birth and then murder it. casey anthony, susan smith to name just a few. those are the real murderers.

right on!

News for you: what you experienced is hyperemesis gravidarum and it really sucks, i went through it with 3 pregnancies. #1-SURPRISE we were told we couldnt get prego for 3yrs. I went from 155 to 102pnds. Lost my job and insurance spent over $400,000 in medical delivered a 5lb14oz girl. #2-PLANNED (REALLY believed i survived it once and couldnt POSSIBLY be that sick again) 155lb to 114, $200,000 and a 6lboz girl. #3-DEFINITELY UNPLANNED (happened in spite of 3 simultaneous forms of B.C.) 155lb to 122lb $900,000 and a 5lb10oz preemie boy. The 3rd pregnancy was the worst (i got stretch marks my guts are actually falling out, a mouth of enamless teeth, my son has a heart murmur from being preemie, and im bankrupt.) IT WAS WORTH IT BUT...you better just get a tubal ligation! For the record, I WAS prochoice until i actually got pregnant. Now on my second round with the Essure+taking Depo and using condoms and AM TERRIFIED of another pregnancy. JUST GET YOUR TUBES TIED!

How about adoption? You do know that there are so many people out there that would love to have a child but can't for whatever reason...I get so tired of those folks who say they got an abortion because they just couldn't be bothered with a child...here's an idea for some of those people who just like to have fun in the sack with no protection- when in doubt...leave it out!! Just sayin'.....

Naahhh. Infanticide is so much easier than actually doing the right thing, lol :)