Can I Be Queer?
I am going to lay it out there and see where the chips fall. I am a 24 year old man and have been with my partner (female) for 8 years. I enjoy sexual activity with her and I have fathered a son, for whom my love knows no end. However, I am living a lie. I am attracted to men, and when in a "safe environment", I can truly be who I am and express myself as queer. I just came out to my wife who was supportive and while I don't see the need right now to come out to others, I am just wondering if there is anyone you know or resources you are familiar with regarding married men who are queer? When in the company of hetero men, I can't be myself. I find myself changing my mannerisms and being more "masculine" to appease the crowd. I am most comfortable when I am with others who share my experiences. I have never had sex with a man, but have attractions to men and am completely open (within the boundaries of my partnership with my female partner) to having relations with a man. Please help...I feel like my identity has crumbled.