I am queer.
I am not a homosexual because I have loving relationships with those who identify as male.
I am not bisexual, because bi means two and there are more than two genders.
Queer means many things. It has allusions to political activism, and it is a word that we had to fight to turn positive.
I am Queer, and I am proud of that fact.
(One of my partners jokes that "we're not lesbians, but you can't get much queerer than us!)