How Do I Deal With Anrude and Disrespectable Aduld Kid

My step son is almost 23 and is driving me around the bend. The only we ask of him is to clean his room and not eat anything in it. He pays very little for room and board and will do nothing to help us. He is very rude and my husband seems to have a problem when it comes time to sticking up for me. I am at the point that I feel very incomfortable and nervous in my home. I feel he should leave and figure life out. He has a good job so there is no reason he can't make it. Is anyone else going through this as well.

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1 Response Mar 12, 2009

I would give him an ultimatum. Shape up or ship out. Period.