When I was a child, we moved many times. At first, I adapted well but finally during my middle school years I just couldn't seem to make friends. After over 20 years, married to the same man we really need to move. He has great job but its 1 1/2 hours away from home. We need to move, but we built our on house, and that's special. Also the people in my town are almost the only family I have, my family died several years ago. I just can't stand the thoughts of moving again, but the opportunities in the other place are so much better. I know I am ready for change because it's the logical thing to do. It seems that it will happen fairly soon. Selling a house and all of that takes time, but we will eventually make the big move. It's really significant that the old childhood wounds kick back in later in life. It would save about $800.00 dollars in month in gasoline if we move. Now that's logical.