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Infinite Sadness

I´m sad and lonely because I have no friends but my cats.

I´m sad and lonely because I´m stupid and clumsy and an unacheever.

 

Dragonette Dragonette 41-45, T 35 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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you areprobably dyslexic and who said you had to rule the world?

I truly believe without my cat....i would really sink into a deep depression. She is everything to me.

me too lets be friend XD

My dog is my best friend, hell my only friend.

I agree I am gay have a spouse of 26 years but still sad!

i can understand. i don't know what i'd do without my animals. All my friends have either moved away or are involved with themselves to have time for me. Same with my sisters. My son is cute and i play with him sometimes. i just get too tired. For the most part he wants to just sit and watch Netflix. i get stir crazy. I have a husband. We use to be best friends. Now we seem not to have time for each other. We never have a baby sitter and our son has ADHD. So he is a handful to say the least. i basically sit with my son and watch Netflix until i can't stand it any longer. Or i sit and cuddle with my cats and dogs.

I find that hard to believe. Can I be your friend?

i know the feeling as i feel more understood by my cats than people also <br />
it's cause humans want to control and put their thoughts upon others cause of the ego. cats, dogs any animal gives out unconditional love as that is what they are humans need many lifetimes it seems to be close to the level of the innocence of animals <br />
there are others who share your feelings and it's nice to have a place here to share those thoughts

I feel this way too. Theres so much of me in what you've said, that in a strange way it gives me comfort knowing that I'm not alone in my pain. Just remember who you are and what you have. There are so many out there with so much less of what we have and take for granted and have so much more trouble and suffering. Breathe and learn to love the miracle that is you.

You are not lonely. There are so many good people around who can become your friends try and reach out to them. And why do you think that you are stupid, Clumsy and unachiever. Even children who go to special schools are taught many creative things and they manage to do it successfully. God has given you everything put that to use.

I dont know you but i am more then sure you can acieve much more than you think, we all can.<br />
look at the bright side, atleast you aren't so weak that you are doing wreckless things to fill those voids like sleeping or hooking up with random dudes or any other self destructive behavior. <br />
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it's easy to forget there is more people like us then we think

You are lucky you even get to have pets. I can't have any. :( if i did though, i would want a cockatiel or a parakeet! Cats are cute too, but I think maybe they are too much work for me! >.< I am not very responsible in the pets department just yet, but when i move out i will! Just keep looking for something that you are good at and go from there. maybe you'll find something to give you fulfillment.

It hurts me to hear that there are so many sad and lonely people out there. You're not alone, and I know what you mean about your cats being your only friend, I've been there. I believe things will change for you. I'm only 19, but I'm totally willing to be your friend.

In a houseful of people I continue to be sad and lonely; I just cannot find anything to be happy about......

HELLO MY FRIEND I AM A MEMBER OF UCKG CHURCH AND ALL I CAN SAY TO YOU IS NO YOUR NOT STUPID YOU ARE VERY PRECIOUS YOU ARE A GIFT FROM THE LORD JESUS I BELIEVE SOMETIMES ITSS SATAN THAT TRY TO BRING DISTANCE FROM YOUR HAPPINESS FOR YOU TO COMFORT THIS DISTANCE THERE IS ONLY ONE CHURCH THAT GIVE YOU FREE ADVICE HELP YOU THROUGH ALL YOUR PROBLEMS AND WILL MAKE YOU BE A TESTAMONY LIKE THOSE WHO HAVE GONE THROUGH SAME PROBLEM LIKE YOU HAVE ACHIEVED IT WITH THE HELP OF OUR GOD, SO I CAN ADVICE YOU WHEREVER YOU ARE TYPE ON THE COMPUTER AND FIND THE UCKG CHURCH AND GO AND ATTEND THE SERVICE FAITHFULLY AND I PROMISE IF YOU BE FAITHFUL THE LORD JESUS CHRIST WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE, THIS IS YOUR DAY YOUR CHANCE SO DONT MISSS IT.

I'm sorry...

i am alway triping over and falling down too. and i also wetting my diapers too.part of me feels stupid and the other part of me just wants to find a girlfriend that wets her pants too and will wear a diaper with me and let me change her and she change me.

Did your clumsiness arrive through a desire for attention? <br />
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What makes you think you're stupid?<br />
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Happiness is a self-ascribed condition ba<x>sed on what you have. You must be able to find some happiness in what you do have before anyone can make you happy with something else.

Did your clumsiness arrive through a desire for attention? <br />
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What makes you think you're stupid?<br />
<br />
Happiness is a self-ascribed condition ba<x>sed on what you have. You must be able to find some happiness in what you do have before anyone can make you happy with something else.

You should not put yourself down so much. We all are worth something and until you really believe that you will not be able to lift yourself up. I know from personal experience that what you feel about yourself shows to others who come into contact with you. Sometimes I feel invisible to others, like I don't exist. But then I know that if people don't see me, it's their loss because I am a wonderful person so they are the one's missing out on a person who could be a good friend or maybe more.

Not sure you're still checkin up on EP, but lonliness is a temporary thing. Many of us go through it (some of us - several times). I'm glad I joined EP, it has (at least tempoarily), prevented me from doing something thats irreversible. So maybe if you need someone to talk to, I'l only 3 or so years oldwr than you, so maybe I have some similar experiences I can share and maybe - just maybe WE could help each other. Conversation tends to do that sometimes. Much luck to ya and hope all is well! (or at least a little better)

i sent you a message it would been nice if you said something back. i was trying to be helpful

i feel the same way except i dont have a cat & my dog hates me, less then my son hates me though

There was someone on here that posted something about how we all have whats called an inner predator. The inner predator tears us down and makes us feel like we are worthless. But your not worthless, if anything I think your shy, you dont have to be here. Everyone here on EP is very nice. And theyll listen and give your their advice. So your not alone and you have many potential friends here.

its true im feeling like that right now sad and lonely and hardly anyone contacts me anymore an i hardly am out of the house and feel so incompetent that now im unemployedm im only 20/f an i have a kitten and it makes me feel better cos she needs me here

the only unconditional love i have ever had is from my cats ... sadness is my other companion ...

When you get sad and lonely, it's easy to get down on yourself. A few days ago I got hard on myself, and was bitter about how I can't get a boyfriend but a transvestite with anger management problems can get a companion.

Everyone is smart in their own way, and has a purpose in this world. Life can be tough and it is easy to forget this sometimes. God has always helped me. We are all alone at different times in our lives, but it doesn't have to be forever. You never know when your life will change, could be any moment. What's wrong with cats? They love you no matter what! I have two bunnies and they make me feel better when I am down. Things will change, you'll see....:)

Be careful, I might do just that!<br />
Thanks :)

its just me and my dog. I know how you feel and your not alone. You always got someone to talk to. don't be afraid to reach out to me.