i feel so sad and lonely at the moment, really no one to share with how I truly feel. need advice, need help desperately.
I never felt happy before but it never bothered me. I met this girl who befriended me and really helped me get through the worst part of my life. her and I became to closest and best friends. that made me happy. eventually, even I didn't really push for it and did feel that way about her, we became closer. we started seeing each other but never made it official. which I didn't care about. after 2 years, and occasionly stopping it, she decided that it got too complicated and ruined our friendship. she decided it would be better if we stayed best friends. but I cant help it and have feelings for her and love her. now without her by my side all the time I feel so lonely and sad again. I love this women. but she says its too complicated. but we see each other all the time and are so close. I don't know what to do. I love her so the only way to get over her is to not speak to her, but because we are the closest of friends we see and/or speak to each everyday. what do I can!!!?? im going insane, any advice or opinion would help. I love her so much but I cant pretend to just be friends with her.
kissrevenge kissrevenge
31-35, M
1 Response Aug 22, 2014

You either show her that both of you are meant to be or you leave her completely and tell her you can't have her as a friend anymore.

It will hurt either way if your way of thinking is the same as me so I hope it isn't.

I feel so lost and don't know what to do. its past the point of being friends. I don't care if we take a break and its the wrong time. that doesn't bother me, i'll wait. but if it is truly over and will eventually never happen, then I don't want to be her friend. that's what made it so great was because we were such great friends. if I told her that I didn't want to be her friend it would destroy her probably. im just so lost and don't know what to do.