I Am Incredibly Sad.

After 8 years my husband left me. He just left with no explanation. Gone and now I am left. I don't know what I did or how I could have prevented this.

I have always been strong. I think my friends forget that I am human with feelings. I am secretly falling apart. I am incredibly sad and alone and lost...

Fitzies Fitzies
31-35, F
1 Response Feb 27, 2010

People do grow apart and maybe he just felt that the marriage wasnt working for him anymore. <br />
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As monogamous as we want to be we aren't. We are not meant to be with one person our entire lives. There are 7 billion people in this world so im sure that there is another million guys out there meant for you. Most people dont realize it but you live in a town with thousands of people probably 1, if not more, out of every 1,000, is meant for you in some way. <br />
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Im 23 years old and I have found at least 4 soul mates in my life time all with in a 30 mile radius. You will find someone else and you will fall in love all over again, it could and should happen at least another 4 times. <br />
Personally I feel sorry for the people who waste their life on one person for however many years because they dont get to experience being in love with some one else for a completely different reason.<br />
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Good luck with your future and try your best to move as forward as possible, you only have one life to live and millions of men to meet :)