For The Next Time...I am divorced and I have children, so I'm obviously not a virgin, but as much as I love sex I'm saving myself for the woman I will one day marry. There were moments after the divorce where I could have given in and just gone out to have a "wild time", but I controlled myself because I'm not going to just "give" myself to anyone. Just because my ex couldn't keep herself restrained doesn't mean I have to behave like her.
As a Christian I know I'm not perfect but I do always desire to do the things that please God, and avoiding fornication is one of them. It has been over a year and half for me (with my ex, about 2 weeks before she left), and by now I'm in no rush to have sex anytime soon.