My Desicion

Im 19. all of my friends are having sex but Im still a virgin. To be honest, I wasn't planing on saving myself in the first place. Actually, I met the perfect guy and was about to lose my virginity when I found out that he cheated on me with another because "it took me so long to have sex". Now, Im so happy that he cheated. I started to think about it, about myself and about our society and I decided that I don't want to be like the others. Im not doing that in the name of god, but in the name of love. I want to wait for the right one, for my only one. I will wait for my wedding night and I will be pure for the one that I love. I want to know my husband for the first time, I want it to be special for both of us and I know that "the right one" will be happy, not judging, when he will know.
kate212 kate212
4 Responses Jan 19, 2012

A lucky escape !

Good for you !

I completely agree! Although I believe in God, my decision to wait until marriage isn't about tradition or religion, it's about me respecting myself. I hope to find a man who loves me and only me, realizes what I am worth, and respects me: that is my definition of true love. & in return I will be able to stand before and alter with pride in myself, being able to give my husband the gift of being only his.

How about your Mr. Right: Does he have to be a virgin too or, doesn't that matter to you ?

This is the path to the true love. I truly hope you will found him!