And It's My Decision

It used to be because of religious reasons, but I have since drifted away a bit from that and I have decided that I wasn't only wanting to save myself because God wanted me to, but because I want to. I've seen how sex effects my friends that do, and I don't like it. I don't want to be like that.. I want to be myself. And I think , I've gone without it for my lifetime so far so why do I need it now? I can wait, its not that worth the risk of pregnancy, or infections, or anything else. I want to make sure I'm mature enough for it and that I'm with the right person. I don't think I'm going to get married. But if I do, I'll be pure going into it, by my decision, and not anyone else's.

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4 Responses Jan 24, 2010

Just a little advise, don't wait!!!
Means don't do this huge sacrifice to get the reward after, but do the sacrifice just to glorify God, just for this only sake.

I hope it works well for you. I have read about a number of women who waited.....and later regretted it. Some of them are in their 40s and still waiting, and are now upset.<br />
God Bless and Namaste.<br />
cliff<br />

u so right .and i wish we stay strong and we never change that.

You've made the right, mature, respectful decision! As the saying goes... 'Good things come to those who wait.' You're still young and you'll definitely meet some respectable men in the future. As for now, just concentrate on your studies so that you will earn a good education and eventually secure a good job.