Never Use To Be.
I am pretty sure I know where my fear has come from, I just don't know what to do about it. I was (still am) married to an electrician and being a typical tradesman I was usually the one who changed the light bulbs "I'll do it later darl" was a constant comment lol. So to save time I'd do it myself.
My husband was killed in a fall from height work accident 3yrs ago and now I can't even bring myself to stand on a chair' I have turned into a scared little rabbit over heights and because of this now I either put up with a blown light bulb or have to make myself ask a friend to do it for me pathetic huh.
Miss him so much the impact on my life has hit in some unexpected places like my newly developed fear of heights. I am not good at asking for help especially over silly things like lights.