By Myself

I have been in this relationship for almost two years now...i am afraid that it is falling apart!

He has a felony, no g.e.d./diploma and no vehicle so its hard for him to get a job and i know that it hurts him when people keep asking him, but sometimes i feel like i cant do this alone for the rest of our relationship if we were to get married. He sleeping when im awake and is awake when i sleep so we barely get to spend anytime together hes up all night either on the computer or playing video games. (he lives with me at my parents)

We have sex like once every two weeks i have to beg for it. (he has depression and other problems so i think it might be due to low testosterone this still upsets me because i feel unattractive)

i cook, clean up, do laundry and go to school. I cant say much because i dont have a car either or a job right now because of school but i just dont know what to do.
i have tried to talk to him about this before and it turns into a fight that hes just not good enough for me or that im want to much. I dont know what to do.

I love him but im afraid that theres no changing him that he is just going to be like this and im going to have to be taking care of him forever.
MindySlaughter MindySlaughter
22-25, F
1 Response Oct 26, 2012

"He has a felony, no g.e.d./diploma..."

Sweetie, I hate to tell you this but you deserve far better and I'm not gonna lie to you. I doubt I could date a felon (violent felon would be a never for me) to begin with, but a felon with no education, absolutely not! Maybe people have told you this, but the guy is a total loser not deserving your adoration. At the very least, you should tell him, get your GED then get a job and go to trade school or college, or get lost. Sweetie, it is that simple.

I would agree whole heartedly. This is good advice