So Much So

That I am afraid of love period.

I may never fall again because of the fear of the pain that comes from having to fall out again.

BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia
41-45, M
29 Responses Oct 12, 2007

I never had a chance, : )

That we are crazy? : )

Oh yeah...those demons will test our spirit every time. Wonder what they are trying to teach us?

It is a wonderful feeling but I have these demons in my head that try to screw it up for me every chance they get. It's hard to explain. They point things out that aren't there. Make red flags out of blue flags. Make sense?

See blue, we're sad when you're sad :'( and that means we all love you. I think that you have loved and been hurt for a reason. So that you know what hurt feels like and have something to compare the wonderful feeling you will have when true love comes along.

Now you explain it of course.

Thanks for the inarticulate rambling. <br />
Hope you make sense of the something. : )

Is it better to have love and lost than not to have love ever?

Thanks I need it. Problem is if you never look you never find. : )

Thats what you have to remember! Find that one true love that is soooooo wonderful that you can't even remember the painful past! Best of luck! :^}

I agree TK but the hurt outweighs the good in my case by a large amount.<br />
I agree it is better to have love and lost,,,, I have loved and lost. So I been there done that. : )<br />
I will try again but it will be with someone so wonderful that I can't help myself. : )

Blue<br />
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Keep your chin up! We have all been hurt in the past and we all need to take those hurts and turn them into something to learned by. I'm sure you will find love again and remember one thing as everyone else said its better to loved and lost than never to loved at all. When you look at your past hurt put it away and think of the joy you also had. Wishing you Luck and Happiness. <br />
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And the hurts/upsets taught me lessons too so although I was devastated at the time, I got over them and now I'm with someone who loves & respects me.

I am as strong as I want to be. : )<br />
But I do agree with everything you said TG<br />
Thanks for your input

I agree with those who've been saying "Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all". If I hadn't fallen in love before I met my fiance, I wouldn't be the person I am today - ie the one he fell in love with.<br />
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Plus the upsets and the hurts have made me stronger.

Good luck scrapper

dont fear the outcome of a love you have yet to experience. the past is the past. you'll never forget it, but you must get passed it inorder to be happy again. <br />
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someone said earlier it will come when you least expect it. that is defidently true. i was dating someone else the day i met my husband. my boyfriend and i had gone to my dealers house who just happened to also be my husbands uncle. how weird is that. defidently not the story i want to tell my kids when they ask how me and daddy met. true love just creeps up on ya.<br />
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think of love as an amusement park. all the rides are fun. some make you sick, some you ride for the thrill, but eventually you'll find your favorite.

Thanks neighbor. The rain does sound wonderful.<br />
I like the quote ty.<br />
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I'll check the blog out

You got a good woman there spacenut

great comments, You guys are the best

Don't settle but don't give up either. You can find happiness and enjoy sharing your life.

Good advice. I will try to follow it. : ) TY

What's the saying ? Don't let a hell bent heart , leave you bitter! I will never give up on love just be more cautious who i give my heart too.

I just thought I had it all figured out,<br />
I could be wrong about this, in my dreams

Great advice

That sucks. no matter what, you are just along for the ride...might as well drive it like you stole it.

I don't know what to say... wow that's a first. Just using space at this point...

I'm not sure I agree with that. I would be great to be loved as I have loved.

What is the saying, I would rather have loved and lost than not have loved at all. My mind is crack, I really should know who wrote that, it will come to me when I least expect it.